even if your reading this and I have no idea who you are
Dev and I were talking about our upcoming anniversary.
My question is: should the woman do equal planning in anniversaries or is that a man job??
My bridal shower Nov 08' he surprised me at the end with roses and a letter
guy mainly plans....girls maybe do a little input! :)
ReplyDeletemy husband & i decided to take turns each year on planning the activity.
ReplyDeleteBut we still get a gift for eachother.
this year was our first anniversary and i planned a surprise anniversary hunt. it was so fun!
it sent him to all the places we had lived together and place we like to go. it ended at the place we were married at, with me waiting for him in my wedding dress. it was really awesome :)
haven't hit the anniversary of a year yet...but i would say the guy?! but why can't you put in a little input of what would be fun! but valentine's day and anniversaries i would say are the guy's job.
ReplyDeleteDepends if you guys are cute or not haha I was about to say that Darren and I are not because we totally normally plan it together, but then I remembered that Darren surprised me for our third year... turns out we're cute every once in a while after all! :)
ReplyDeleteSo I guess, take it as it comes. The first year we planned together, the second year we just had a baby and didn't do much, and the third year he surprised me (but told me a week before what the plan was so I wouldn't try to plan something). With some couples, I would say if you actually want to do something fun and cute you should be a part of the planning... but I can see Devin doing cute stuff so I don't think you need to worry about that!
We're pretty boring it's always dinner & a movie...but if we weren't boring I would say he should plan at least something cute for the day!
ReplyDeleteI think the guy should plan, but the girl should help...as much as she can if its a surprise. You married each other so its a gift to one another. Thats just my opinion, but it would be awesome if the guy did it all haha
ReplyDeletei would want to plan it together! for me, its not something he would owe me or i deserve- it's something were celebrating together- celebrating each other. so, i would think it would be more fun to plan together! we'll see if my opinion changes after we get married! love you bec!
ReplyDeleteI like the idea of taking turns since it is something that you are celebrating together!
ReplyDeleteour first anniversary joe surprised me with the activity and i had no idea what he was planning and it was fun, the second one i threw out some ideas and he ended up picking one though i didn't know what it was until the day...
ReplyDeleteWe decided to take turns.. although its really turned into a joint decision because we love food. so its usually an opportunity to go out to an expensive restaurant and not care what the bill says haha
ReplyDeleteLast year we planned it together to go to Jackson Hole but he lef tthe hotel resurvations to me. I pretended to reserve a really crappy motel thing and when we got there he was trying not to act all disappointed. then, I turened the car around and when to the place where I actually reserved our own cabin! I was so funny! And he was so suprised and happy. An he had taken the time to plan some suprises for me too. I love suprises.
ReplyDelete